Privacy policy

The content you create: the desires on your kink list, their interest levels, statuses and notes.

Two optional names: the space name and yours. You can leave both empty.

A random access token that identifies your profile in this space. It contains no personal information.

We don't ask for email, password, phone number or date of birth. There are no user accounts.

We don't use advertising analytics, social pixels or sell data to third parties.

We only keep minimal technical server logs for security and abuse prevention.

Only you see your full list. The other person in the space sees what you choose to share: the full list or matches only.

Notes marked as private are never shown to the other person, not even in a PDF export.

We use two technical cookies: one with your access token (so you don't have to do anything when you return) and one with the chosen language or theme.

No advertising or tracking cookies.

Your access link is the only key to your profile. Keep it somewhere private.

If you lose it and have no copy, we cannot recover your profile: we store nothing that could identify you. You can generate a new link (and invalidate the previous one) from Settings.

From Settings you can delete your profile and list instantly.

If you're the last person in the space, the whole space and all its data are removed.

OurDesires is a service for adults aged 18 and over only.

For any privacy question, write to [email protected].