Terms of use

A private, anonymous and free tool for two adults to record, compare and discuss their desires and boundaries.

It is not a dating app, it does not connect strangers and it does not facilitate meetings between users.

You must be 18 or older. Accessing adult content is each person's responsibility.

There are no accounts: your identity inside the space depends on your access link. Share it only with whom you want.

Anything that happens between the two people in a space is the responsibility of the people involved. Consent is essential: a list is an invitation to talk, not an obligation.

Higher-risk practices (breath play, blood, needles, cutting, etc.) require information, hygiene and aftercare. The app is a conversation space, not a guide to safer practice.

It is not allowed to use the platform to harass, coerce, share third-party content without permission or publish illegal material.

The content you create is yours. We only store it to provide the service and it is removed when you delete your profile.

We may remove spaces that breach these terms or applicable law.

OurDesires is free. There are no plans, subscriptions, in-app payments or ads.

The service is provided “as is”. We do our best to keep it available and secure, but we cannot guarantee the total absence of interruptions.

For any question about these terms: [email protected].